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Vanae, I would say a lack of intimacy would be just ***. things like cuddling, massages, kissing, holding hands. if we’re not doing all that, but are still going for sex, it’s only ***.
July 2nd, 2009 at 8:14 am
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I’d say that not mentioning you to his friends/family does not mean anything negative…I never mention my romantic relationships to my friends or family simply because I like that privacy, and I like to keep the two “worlds” seperate, at least for some amount of time.
July 2nd, 2009 at 10:49 am
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I first thought the title of this was “oral ***? or real deal?” hmmm… interesting…
July 5th, 2009 at 5:36 am
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As a Life Coach and human behavior observer you are RIGHT ON GIRL. yes, I am a guy.
July 6th, 2009 at 12:36 pm
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Sorry, cant answer vanae, as im only 13.
But i have had 3 girlfriends.
I was just smart enough to resist *** this young.
July 7th, 2009 at 9:16 pm
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I would like the answer to sneeoosh2’s question because females usually fall in deep with me when I really do enjoy the complete essence of them, but don’t want to go any deeper than just ***. I want to know how to enjoy a females company and sexuality but not “use” them or hurt them. How the hell do we do it???? Straight talk just throws the mood off, and signals are sometimes taken as an insult.
July 8th, 2009 at 12:15 pm
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Hello, I’m a 22 y.o. male and I really didn’t find this accurate for me. I do all of those “real deal” actions (except introducing to family) even when I just want a sexual relationship. That is because I am naturally a caring and sweet guy who doesn’t want to make the girl feel used. I enjoy the whole essence of the female along with the sex, even though I don’t want to take it anywhere else. I have a hard time then though because she falls in love. I would like the answer to sneeoosh2’s Q?.
July 9th, 2009 at 11:52 pm
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vanae,
how about the other way around. what signs can guys watch for to get laid without heavy dating?
July 10th, 2009 at 8:39 pm
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BTW, thanks for recommending Junior Boys, just bought their album, listening to it right now ; )
You have an excellent taste in music!
July 14th, 2009 at 1:28 am
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I think guys are usually afraid of being the “real deal” because, from what was described in the video, that usually puts them in the friend category. There is nothing wrong with a straight guy-girl friendship, but when it is with someone you are attracted to then guys usually don’t want to risk putting themselves out there and become the real deal.
July 16th, 2009 at 2:49 pm
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this is very accurate good job =)
July 18th, 2009 at 10:07 pm
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Looking at other girls/guys isn’t such a bad thing. Depends on the girl/guy you are with. Make it a game to find the attractive girls AND guys where you are (club, restaurant, etc) – disarms the whole issue.
One other way to tell the difference is to straight up ask! Guys can be in different modes at different times: relationship mode, single mode. I am always open about it (“real men” should have the guts to be honest at least). I probably won’t bring it up first thing though.
July 19th, 2009 at 6:11 am
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hmp…those are the obvious signs, but there are some guys out there…aka pickup artist (PA), who are far beyond that. These guys can make any ladies fall off their feet.
July 22nd, 2009 at 5:27 pm
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wow you know guys real good
July 22nd, 2009 at 8:05 pm
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:O me need help i heard the girl that i like that she sad *i will take u out tomorrow to another boy* help me what shall i do ?
July 23rd, 2009 at 7:07 am
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nate lol i am laughing so hard from your comment. dude you sound like my best friend. the girls who will love you are the ones that are timid themselves and.. you dont see hanging around lads and jocks. they’re better anyway IMO.
July 25th, 2009 at 7:36 pm
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vanae how come you are only 20 sumthing and already have so much knowledge and experience about these thingys?
July 27th, 2009 at 4:30 pm
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very VERY accurate.
July 28th, 2009 at 12:39 pm
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thanks!
July 30th, 2009 at 4:15 pm
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good work vanae!
that’s gold from Australia
August 1st, 2009 at 10:51 am
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haha. oh boy…you just revealed a side of ‘douchebag’.
August 3rd, 2009 at 12:37 pm
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i’m definitely not like that. my friends either. so it wouldn’t be right to say that females, as a group, like to show off things. i do agree that physical attraction is undeniably a factor.
August 6th, 2009 at 4:31 am
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high five*
August 7th, 2009 at 1:05 am
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gracias!
August 8th, 2009 at 6:55 pm
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A man of quality will never share himself with a woman he just met. He wants to explore her personality and to discover how she really his. So *** is never the priority, the priority is to hang out with the woman and to have fun. A guy that just wants *** is always in a hurry. He wants to get it as quick as possible. So if a guy just wants *** he will rush things up and kiss the woman very early. If he is ‘real deal’ he will be selective and his objective will only be to hang out and have fun.
August 12th, 2009 at 3:50 am